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How to Talk to a Child about a
Suicide Attempt in Your Family

If there has been a recent suicide attempt in your family, this may be one of the toughest experiences you and your children may ever face. It is important to take care of yourself, so that you are better able to care for your child.

This guide is intended to provide you with some of that support, and also share other resources that may be helpful for you now and as your family recovers. The guide is not intended to replace professional mental health advice. In fact, it may be best to use this along with professional support if you or your child is struggling with how to talk about this difficult subject.

Each of the three buttons (preschooler, school age and teenager) above will take you a page that provides information and ideas specific to the age group. Each page includes sections related to:

  • Why talking about a suicide attempt is important;
  • Ideas about when you should talk about an attempt,
  • Ideas on how much information to share;
  • Ways to support a child (preschooler, school age and teenager); and,
  • Examples on what to say and how you might say it.

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How to Talk to a Child about a Suicide Attempt in Your Family

Cómo hablar con su hijo sobre un intento de suicidio en su familia

Also, there are videos for each individual age group:

Order the Free Full-Color 24 Page Guide with DVD in English or Spanish

There is a new 24 page full color booklet that can be ordered for free that combines all age groups. This booklet is currently only available in English and Spanish and each comes with a DVD.

..:: NEW Translation! ::.. Download the Guide in English and Spanish

The full guides can also be downloaded in two different versions:

There are also English and Spanish quick-versions available. Currently, the Spanish version uses a previous format. Download:

How to talk to a preschooler about a suicide attempt

Cómo hablar con un hijo de 4 a 8 años acerca de un intento de suicidio en la familia

How to talk to a school age child about a suicide attempt

Cómo hablar con un hijo de 9 a 13 años acerca de un intento de suicidio en la familia

How to talk to a teenager about a suicide attempt

Cómo hablar con un hijo de 14 a 18 años acerca de un intento de suicidio en la familia

Resources

Parents and families may find extra support and/or access to professional guidance from the following:

**New Resource** - A Veteran’s Guide to Talking With Kids About PTSD from the VA South Central (VISN 16) Mental Illness Research, Education and Clinical Center (MIRECC).

**New Resource** - Talking with Children about TBI by the Defense and Veterans Brain Injury Center.

Mental Health America — www.mentalhealthamerica.net/

National Alliance on Mental Illness (NAMI) — www.nami.org/

SAMSHA Behavioral Health Treatment Services Locator — www.samhsa.gov/

American Academy of Child & Adolescent Psychiatry Facts for Families: www.aacap.org/

National Child Traumatic Stress Network — www.nctsnet.org/

PBS This Emotional Life — www.pbs.org/thisemotionallife/

National Suicide Prevention Lifeline — www.suicidepreventionlifeline.org/

The following resources are geared specifically for Veterans and their families:

War Within — www.warwithin.org/

Give an Hour — www.giveanhour.org/

Soldier’s Project — www.thesoldiersproject.org/

NAMI Veterans & Military Resource Center — www.nami.org/

Vet Center Program — www.vetcenter.va.gov/

Veterans Crisis Line (1-800-273-8255 and Press 1) — www.veteranscrisisline.net/

If you feel you are in crisis, whether or not you are thinking about killing yourself, please call the Lifeline. People have called the Lifeline for help with substance abuse, economic worries, relationship and family problems, sexual orientation, illness, getting over abuse, depression, mental and physical illness, and even loneliness.

Lifeline — 1-800-273-TALK (8255)
Or use the Lifeline Chat Service

If you are a Veteran or concerned about one — Veterans Crisis Line 1-800-273-8255 Press 1
or Text: 838255
or try the Confidential Veterans Chat

Acknowledgements

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